Wednesday, August 20, 2008

How to Get a Girl to Like You..[this is only for guys ingey keke...]

Every girl is different--if they were all alike, you wouldn't be interested in this one in particular, now would you? There are as many different ways to get a girl as there are girls, so let's go over some basic rules that'll win over any girl worth getting.

  1. Have your own life.If you tend to fall into the "friend zone", this is especially important. Girls don't like guys who have no lives, and who cling to them like plastic wrap. Actually, some girls do like that, but usually for all the wrong reasons--either they're insecure and needy for attention, or they're control freaks who like to dominate guys. Unless you want to sign up for either of those scenarios, focus filling your time with your own friendship,interests, and goals
  2. Make an impression.There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself.Demonstrate a unique skill or talent that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence too.
  3. Flirt. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact.Smile. Strike up a casual conversation.Most importantly,relax.Don't think of her as the girl of your dreams; don't worry about what will happen if you make a bad joke, or you've got something stuck to your teeth. Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. Live in the moment.
  4. Talk to her. Tell her what you really enjoy in life, what gets you excited and what you want to leap out of bed to pursue. Ask her what she really loves in life and what gets her excited. Be positive. If you have had a bad day, still greet them with pleasure and a big smile. Most importantly, listen
  5. Be romantic. The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles and chocolate) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique, and find/do things for them that only they would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know--better than anyone else in the world--what makes her unique.
  6. Break touch barrier. There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your elbow so she can link arms with you as you walk together. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. Rub her hands when they're cold. These are all polite ways to get a little closer without being creepy. Still, if you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.
  7. Compliment her. If you really like this girl, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills.
  8. Make her laugh. Telling jokes or funny stories is the classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her.Be bold and think of some antics that'll make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not dangerous or illegal, of course).
  9. Ask her out. Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you--make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something that you're proud of. Or, express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. Or, just go out for lunch or a cup of coffee and get to know her better.

Tips

  • Take your time. Don't be pushy or needy. Continue courting her by following the steps above, but don't rush things. If you end up in a relationship with this girl, she'll always remember how you made her feel when you were just getting to know each other. Make her feel appreciated, not invisible or smothered.

Warnings


  • Too much of anything is bad. Being too preoccupied with your own life, using every single opportunity to touch her, showering her with too many compliments, and cracking enough jokes to rival a stand up comedian can all ruin your chances with a girl.
  • Be hygienic. Body odor and uncleanliness are universal turn-offs. That includes bad breath, flatulence, burping, and foot odor. Shower and brush your teeth daily (right before you see her is ideal), trim your nails, and wash your clothes and shoes regularly. Some girls find the smell of cigarette smoke or strong cologne offensive.

12 comments:

Ecoze Prince said...
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Anonymous said...

lol..:P....wow baby..:P...

ddnt know i was being worked on by a professional:P...
lol
majaa ingey..
heheh luv ur views on datin...

n as for everythin u said...
i will say its jus all true..;) mwah

converslogic said...

grt post..

frm my view..

"don't giv evrythn da grl wnts,.. evn grls doesn't like dat.. (try askin a grl) jst try being different by not givn wut she wants at tht tym.. but b sure to giv her sumthn bttr sumtym els of da day.."

m 100% sure u wn't end up slapped neither wud she b mad at u.. she'll actually like u for being different compared to da othr guys..

jst ask a grl whthr m wrong.. ;)

Ecoze Prince said...

hey.thanx converslogic...thibuny hama v bodu thedeh....ekam dheveyneh nun beynunhaa ehcheh..i love her so much ey hehehe..........

Ecoze Prince said...

babyyy...ummwah...u made me pro eh nun hehe.ummwah baby..love u so much..

How To Get A Girl To Like You said...

Don't play cool, be cool. Do not try to go sleazy with her. Make her feel comfortable of your presence and trust will be soon on your way.

dating said...

Thanks for the tips,it'll be a lot easier now.This tips would come in handy after all luring women this days can be such a pain.

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